Tuesday, September 8, 2009

What others think of you

Everyone cares about what others say and think about them. It’s only natural to care. I think that caring about what other people think is a natural tendency and in our genetic makeup. It’s very difficult to not care what others think of you. There are very few people in the world that don’t care what others say or see about them. I bet those people are the happiest too. I haven’t met anyone that says they don’t care what others say/think about them, and if they do, it doesn’t show. It’s difficult, because no one likes to be judged or talked about behind his or her back. No one wants to be classified as a certain type or person. People don’t like to be made fun of. Some are better off being someone different just so they won’t be laughed at or made fun of. That is another reason why people care what others think about them. Some have to change their personality, etc. in order to not be made fun of. I think we can control the way other people see and think about us sometimes. Someone might dress different just so they won’t be judged or thought about in the wrong way. Others may talk differently or hang with a different crowd, just so they can “fit in.” We can’t physically control what others see and think, but we can trick others into thinking about others in a positive way by changing yourself.

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